chinese traditional virtue is the excellent moral heritage we inherited from the ancients. we learned many moral characters, such as, thrift, honesty, affection, filial piety, loyalty, humaneness and so on through many old stories and life practice. i summarized it into three aspects: humanity, courtesy and integrity.

to begin with, chinese culture advocates humanity. this thought does not only seek for human peace but also for the harmony between human and nature and other creatures. there are many examples that show humanity in the history. the emperors, who gain people’s great supports such as tang taizong, kang xi, complied with the philosophy that “cultivate humanity, and then you could cultivate your family, administrate the country, and bring peace all over the world” (the book of rites). additionally, there goes a famous saying, “honor the aged of other people as we honor our own, take care of the young of other people as we take care of our own” (the analects). this important part of humanity makes great contributions to establishing a harmonious society. all in all, humanity makes us show respect to not only human life but also the environment and all kinds of life around us.

in addition, china, a nation which has civilization of 5,000 years, puts courtesy at a very important position. from the old to the young, from the important events to the trivial things, it is common for people to use this rule to regulate their behavior. the traditional story of kong rong sharing pears is well-known by chinese people. the behavior of kongrong to choose the smallest pear and leave the bigger ones to his brothers is a good explanation for the courtesy and comity. courtesy makes us form many good habits in the daily life, for instance, saying hello to teachers, respecting parents, showing courtliness to our friends, giving up our seat on the bus to the people who needs it more. what’s more, courtesy play an important role in the chinese diplomatic policy which do great help to the success of building steady relationship with other nations.

last but not least, chinese ethics place a great emphasis on integrity. it is the basic

principle when we get along with others. for this reason, i regard it as the most important rule we should obey to regulate our behavior. integrity is needed in every field of our life. to be honest and sincere is the fundamental thing to be a human being. just as the famous saying of socrates “the dishonest life is not worth living”. moreover, honesty and integrity is necessary when we are handling the relationship with friends and family members. keeping secrets among family and friends often harm them deliberately or in deliberately. still, in a business perspective, integrity is mainly with sincere reception, fair trade, abiding by the contract, pay the liabilities in time, and not cooking the books, etc. as a student, we show our integrity through pursuing the true academic knowledge, obeying the discipline of test, using the true and correct information to compete in all kinds of award selection.

in summary, i am deeply convinced that all these great virtues had, have and still will have tremendous effect on the field of regulating people’s behaviors. the chinese traditional virtues are not only the essence of ancient moral civilization, but also the cohesion of chinese national family. great efforts are essential for us to make in order to pursue and inherit all these invisible spiritual culture heritages.

社交作文篇2

当我们兴高采烈的像对方说自己的趣事是，却发现对方哈欠连连，对自己的话题毫不感兴趣，甚至自己的话被对方打断，这让我们心里就会很不舒服。

同样，如果我们换个角度，当对方向我们倾诉的时候，我们这样对待他人，他人会是怎样的感受呢?当然是很不舒服，觉得自己没有收到重视和尊重。

从心理学角度来讲，善于倾听会使对方心情愉快，会换来对方的理解和信任，人际交往是个互动的过程，有听也有说，但大部分什么，我们争抢着说的角色，很多人没有时间和耐心听别人诉说，甚至别人一说话，就给予否定，一口咬定自己没有兴趣，然后阐述自己的观点。

每个人都有表达自己，渴望被理解的欲望，都希望别人扮演听众的角色，有了快乐的事情，希望和他人说，和他人分享，有了不开心的事，也希望对他人诉说。我们经常有这样的机会，在有一方面取得成功时，总算想向他人诉说，告诉他人自己有多么了不起，当然当你心情不好的时候，你也希望向他人倾诉，我们只是少一个听众而已。

注意聆听他人的讲话，会让对方知道，你是把他们当成自己感兴趣的人来对待。

认真聆听他人的讲话，对得到他人的尊重，在一定程度在可以满足对方的需要，同时可以使人们的交往交谈更有效，彼此之间关系更融洽。

能够耐心倾听对方的讲话，等于告诉对方:你是一个值得我耐心倾听的人。这样无形中会提高自己的自信心，如果你不认真听，会让别人自信心受挫，让你们关系不好。

在社交场合，受到大家欢迎，人人都希望与之交谈的人，并不是他能说会道，而是他会倾听。因为交谈中又听又讲的人才能满足对方的需要，也只有如此，交谈才能顺利进行，如果只顾自己讲，不想听对方说，则一定会是交谈中的“自私者”一定会被拒之门外。

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有许多人认为路很难走，路之所以难走，是因为没有找到正确的方法——沟通。

在我们这个世间有很多的路，有天上的天路，有地上的道路，有城市中的马路……但最难走的路还是要数通向我们人与人之间沟通心灵深处的路——心路。

随着我年龄的逐渐增长，我开始渐渐发现，我与爸妈之间的关系变得紧张，沟通变得越来越少，取而代之的是回到家后那一声声的关门声，为什么我和爸妈之间的关系会变成这样呢?难道说这就是大人们口中所说的“代沟”吗?

记得有一天，我放学回家，还没用做到书桌前写作业，就听见了我爸妈的唠叨声：“你就不会向你姐姐学习学习吗?学习都不回努努力，考个全年级前十让我和你爸看看。你看看你姐姐，你在看看你，你都不会认真学吗……”我刚听完这句话，和爸妈顶撞了几句，重重的把门一关，躺在床上。心想：爸妈，你们怎么就不会问问我的想法呢?你们都不了解我，不考虑我的感受。

在晚饭吃完的时候，我准备回房间写作业，妈妈突然叫住了我，语重心长的对我说：“儿子，认真学吧，学习好了对你有用。”我实在忍不住了，难过的对妈妈说：“你们总拿我和姐姐或同学比，但你们想过我的感受吗?我其实很努力，但是你们一直唠叨，我已经烦了，这一次考试没用考好，我自己也不好受，已经在努力了，我付出的只不过你们没有看到而已，我也许离你们对我的要求还有一点的距离，单位会努力，成为你们心目中的那个好孩子。”爸妈听了我的这几句话，对我说：“儿子，你有这个决心，我们很开心，之前可能是我们太武断了，没有考虑到你的感受，我们以后会考虑到你的感受，也希望你努力。”

通过那次与爸妈的沟通，我在后来的世间变得很努力，终于在期末考试的时候取得了好的成绩。

从那以后，我和爸妈之间的所谓的“代沟”被填平了，我们的感情变好了，我们也懂得了互相尊重，懂得了替对方考虑，不再有僵持的局面了。

沟通的感觉真好，你会发现身边的花变红了，草变绿了，天空变的湛蓝了，小河的水也变得清澈了，周围的一切都变得美好了。

沟通，真的比什么都要重要。

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experts, to the british people to a guest, should be punctual for an appointment, do not arrive early, but also can not be late, and prepare some small gifts. it's polite to eat all the food on your plate when you have a meal. if you leave the food in the uk, it means that the guest doesn't like the food.

the british like to talk while they are eating, but at this point they need to pay attention to what they eat and talk. it's rude to have a big mouth and talk when eating, so it's better to put a small amount of food into your mouth when eating. if you have to open your mouth, you'd better cover it with one hand. in british culture, leaving social conversations after meals is considered polite, so gatherings can last for hours

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today, i learned from teacher's composition class that british parents started education children from the table, which inspired me a lot.

i read it carefully and found that british parents were very careful to encourage their children to eat. this is nothing, but british children have been trying to eat since their first birthday. want to know, when i was a child, want to eat a meal, but "sprung, ssi thousand coax coax the, i can only eat so a two, it was in the primary schools, or parents to feed me occasionally. i also know that the british parents let children around the age of five children to help do some chores, you can reach in the kitchen, they argue, such not only can reduce the burden of parents, but also the ability to exercise him child labor. looking back at me, at the age of seven, i have not yet helped my parents do anything in the kitchen. sometimes, i think of it. originally wanted to put the tableware, mom and dad again afraid i fell, in a meal, another three four, please please please don't move, ssi called several times, should be several voice, only heart unwilling situation than to go out. naturally, work before a meal is not done. after dinner, "clap your ass" and go!

the more i look at it, the more i'm surprised, the little kids are so small that they can help my parents do something, but i'm so big that i haven't done anything for my parents. and, the british children, grew up learning dining etiquette, for example, have a guest to home for dinner, british children let guests to dinner, and then himself, but as for me, at ordinary times, have guests to dinner, i don't care "one", was a wolf. they don't usually eat that way, and the guests seem to have to be more than the guests. it's a little guilty to think of it

originally, he also let us accept some education. when i woke up, i suddenly realized that i must help my parents do something i can do, whether it be the table or the life. i can't be better than my younger child.

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china dining custom table manners the main difference between chinese and western eating habits is that unlike the west, where everyone has their own plate of food, in china the dishes are placed on the table and everybody shares. if you are being treated by a chinese host, be prepared for a ton of food.

chinese are very proud of their culture of cuisine and will do their best to show their hospitality. and sometimes the chinese host use their chopsticks to put food in your bowl or plate. this is a sign of politeness. the appropriate thing to do would be to eat the whatever-it-is and say how yummy it is. if you feel uncomfortable with this, you can just say a polite thank you and leave the food there.

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在现代化程度越来越高的今天，电脑、传真机、移动电话、网络等科技产品已广泛地被人接受，并完全地融入到了人类社会中。当您有事儿要告诉另外一个人时，您可以打电话;甚至可以打开电脑，敲一通键盘，给他去个e-mall……如此之多的联系方式，真是让人眼花缭乱，令人不知所措。但不知您发现没有，从始至终的交流过程中，您没有跟一个人见过面，跟一位真正的`人说过话，您面对的只是毫无表情的机器。往往地，我们总能看见人们“抱着”电话机一会儿哭、一会儿笑、一会儿叫、一会儿跳;或是在不断变换画面的电脑屏幕前大呼小叫，作痛苦状，作失望状，作兴奋状……

今天，这些机器的地位显得越来越重要了，在我们快乐地抱着它们，并渐渐离不开它们的同时，我们面对面之间的交流越来越少了。

我们曾以我们日益先进的科技水平而骄傲，我们也为这个年代缺少人情味，缺少亲情而苦恼;数字化世界给我们带来方便、快捷的同时，也让我们真正体会到了数字那冰冷无情的一面。

我小的时候住在湖北的一个小镇里，那时各家都还没有装电话，只是靠着串门、聊家常来传播消息。小伙伴们也都乐衷于打打闹闹嘻嘻哈哈的日子。那时的生活并不富裕，但很充实，很有人情味。

现在我来到了北京--一个繁华、拥挤的大水泥城中，却时常在熙熙攘攘的人群里迷失自己，感到孤独、空虚……

如今的人们情愿和千里之遥的陌生人在网上聊个热火朝天，也不愿对近在咫尺的老邻居问声你好。

在城市人之间越来越冷漠的时候，网上社区却越做越火：想找亲情吗?去网上社区;想倾诉衷肠吗?去网络社区聊天室;想找朋友吗?去网上社区交友中心……

我们渴望沟通。但在现实中得不到沟通的他们无奈只好用一种虚幻的交流来慰藉自己那空虚寂寞的心灵。

我们完全可以想像，在不远的未来，人们的生活将是什么样子：人们不再需要开什么会议，因为有了可视电话;人们不再上班，只要在家里打开电脑上网进入公司的网站便可以了;人们不再上学，网络会教给学生一切;甚至，人们不必再去相亲，因为，现在网络爱情就已经出现了……

也许从电话发明的那一刻起，它便注定要成我我们沟通的终结者……

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现在一走进书店，成功学的书总是很抢眼，书名也富有气势：《赢在交往》、《三十天拥有好交往》等等。但一翻开书，却发现书中总是教你去做什么事，然后得到别人的信任，好像世人都要很有心计，以达到利用别人的目的。要是大家都利用他人，那又有什么交往、成功可言呢?

刘备三顾茅庐，终于请到了诸葛亮，这是“技”吗?不是，刘备伤时伤力，这叫什么技巧?这是以情感人，虽然自己失了许多精力，但得到了真正的朋友。俞伯牙和钟子期是一对知己，他们都不是为了利益，只是每天弹琴，以琴声交流。最终，他们成为了终身莫逆。钟子期死时，俞伯牙摔断了六弦琴。这摔琴能带给他什么利益吗?能使他升官发财吗?都不能。正是因为有情，他们才被世人所传颂。交往其实很简单，只要你以真心去对待，就一定能找到真正的知己。

那么，交往就一定不重视“技”吗?也不是的。庄子思考燕子为什么能得到人们的喜爱，他发现鸡、鸭时时刻刻挨着人，所以人们不重视他们;老鹰、大雁不与人交往，所以人们就猎杀他们;而燕子呢?它住在屋檐下，又时常飞走，既和人保持距离，又不疏远人，所以人们喜爱它们，这些都是交往的技巧啊!

有这么多技巧，那交往又怎么能简单呢?这都是因为交往的“技”都是在“情”的基础上产生的，燕子爱人，又热爱生命，所以他们懂得了与人交往的距离，既和人相处，又不伤害到自己。母亲爱孩子，所她渐渐懂得了与孩子交往的技巧，比如如何让孩子高兴，如何对待孩子的自由等等。从一个简单的“情”出发，“技”自然也就有了，这不是简单吗?反之，既使你读了多少成功学，但对他人虚情假意，无论装得再像，时间也会识破你，最终让社会厌恶你，亲人远离你，朋友也不再理会你，那事情就真得变得复杂了。

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